The first semester of your short yet glorious Stephanian life is truly one for the books. The experiences range from being startlingly new to being filled with fun and laughter. It’s a time when many of us step out from the comfort of our homes, leaving behind familiar schools and playgrounds, into a space that is said to play a pivotal role in shaping one’s life.
Once you join college, you’re immediately swept up in a whirlwind of classes, morning assemblies, societies, and new friend groups. It’s easy to get lost in the excitement and emotions of this time, but for some, it can also be anxiety-inducing. Making friends can be a challenge—expressing your true, authentic self to attract people who vibe with you is something we all desire. However, when everyone around you is trying to do the same thing, you may find yourself surrounded by people who might not end up being your lifelong friends. Yes, the saying “The first friend group never really lasts” rings true for many of us! But don’t worry—this is all part of growing up, and eventually, the right people will come into your life and stick around. :)
Classes are filled with an enthusiastic (a little too enthusiastic in the beginning) bunch of classmates and not so enthusiastic bunch of professors. Professors will show up right on time, ready to kick out the poor student who just didn’t get enough sleep last night or ended up having a small chitchat with their neighbour. And if you show up late to class? Well I guess that's up to the teacher to let you in without the bat of an eyelid or just straight up yell OUT! Without the bat of an eyelid as well.
As the semester progresses, you start to find your rhythm amidst the chaos. The initial fear of being lost in a sea of unfamiliar faces begins to fade as you start recognizing friendly smiles in the hallways. The awkward small talk transforms into deeper conversations, and before you know it, you’re sharing laughs and secrets over late-night study sessions or spontaneous coffee breaks. It’s in these moments that you truly begin to create memories that will last a lifetime.
Joining College Societies not only helps you explore new interests but also connects you with like-minded individuals. Whether it’s debating, coding, or even drama, these activities become a sanctuary where you can express yourself freely and build friendships that may last beyond college. The thrill of participating in competitions or organizing events adds an extra layer of excitement, making every moment feel worthwhile.
As the semester winds down, you may find yourself reflecting on how much you’ve grown. The challenges faced, the friendships forged, and the lessons learned all contribute to shaping your identity. While the journey may have its ups and downs, it’s essential to embrace every moment. After all, this is just the beginning of a beautiful adventure in your Stephanian life, filled with endless possibilities and experiences waiting to unfold. So, take a deep breath, cherish the memories, and look forward to what lies ahead!
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